 I’ve been meaning to write about this since I got back from Indonesia, but I think I just shoved these thoughts to the back corner of my mind only to find it resurfacing back in the last few days.
Before I went to Indonesia, one of my best friends suggested to pack light, which means only bring the essential clothing articles and buy more clothes over there since I’ll be travelling with plenty of baby stuffs already in packed. I convinced myself, that I could do that, so there I went pack little for myself for the trip. Her idea is actually a brilliant one, unfortunately, one that cannot be applied to me. Why, you wonder? Easy, because of my size! When I first came here I still remember vividly how overly happy I was when I bought my first tank top and to my surprised, I fit into a small size. For the first time in my life…I can wear something with “S” on its tag. Then as my body went thru my pregnancy, my size went up to be Medium (10) to Large (12) and after Alexander was born I’m still lingering between the two sizes and now I’m back to be a ”Medium”-er (8-10). I had settled for Medium and didn’t want to push my self to be an “S” anymore. In Indonesia, my mother and I went shopping for clothes, and to my horror…it had once again became a nightmare I dreaded to go thru. It brought back those unpleasant memories when I was still living there, how I had to either buy the more expensive clothes just because they use numerical sizes instead of “S”, “M” or “L” or I had to settle for an XL clothes that was hanging to my body in a weird way. Okay, as some of you already know, I inherited my mother’s side of the family with heavy top, my arms have never really been that big but with a wide shoulder and big bust, it’s always been a problem finding the right fit. With the XL size, the arms are always too loose but the bust will fit so mostly I settled with L size. When I was still working, I usually bought the large size button up shirts and secured the areas between the buttons with lots of safety pins. Okay, back to shopping with my mother, I winced when the “L” size doesn’t even fit me, I balloons to an "extra-large" and it makes me feels less beautiful, and less Indonesian and even humiliated as the shop attendant said in her overly cheery voice that they have XXL size if the XL doesn’t fit me, good gracious! I just wanted to storm out of that store. I know too well that I still have some post baby weight to shed (probably 10-20 more pounds!) and I did gained weight too before I got pregnant but standing there weighing 150 lbs and 5’5” I felt like a giant. This proportions maybe considered average for an American woman. But by Indonesian fashion standards, I'm definitely not a "medium." I don’t really understand why the whole thing bothered me so much, besides, I don’t live in Indonesia anymore and I could always find something that fit me perfectly back in the States, where there is always room for plus-sized woman in American fashion no matter what size you are. My husband showed me this article after I ‘complaint’ about what happened, this Asian-American girl wrote a similar situation and she wrote: “Then it strikes me… "Small" means you are cute and adorable. Small means you are beautiful. Small means you are Asian.” Her words ring truthfulness in me, I was trying to squeezed my self into that ‘Asian standard’ figure, I was blind! My own body image had been somewhat distorted especially growing up in Indonesia, hanging around my friends with their model-like proportions where everyone is so thin and small. I’m not one who fit into the stereotype of ‘slim and slender Asians’, I’ve never been small, although looking back at my old pictures I realized I wasn’t as big as I thought I am in my head. I was once fat; I have to admit that, in High School I weigh close to a whooping 200 pounds. Don’t believe me? You can ask my classmate from High School, Leena (since I don't have any of my 'fat' pictures here as a proof). But then after High School, crash diets and all crazy stuffs makes me slim down to 110 pounds but still in my head I’m still huge. Well, perhaps when you live amongst your slim, slender and mostly tiny Asian fellows, you’d feel like I did…a giant in the land of the small. Who knows the psychology behind it! Now that I realized I may never be as thin as they are, and seeing the obesity rates in this town where I live, I can say that I will never let those size tags dictate how am I suppose to feel anymore or define who I am. So, I’ll try to look at my self and be proud of what I have instead of counting every single curve and flab that I wanted to change…besides like one of my friend said; “Most Asian women wants to have those rack of yours!” 
 | Buahaha... sorry Oyen... ikke jadi geli abis.. "not laughing at you... though"... Tapi emang keterlaluan...
I guess we have the same figures... 'wide shoulders'...
Forget about size my dear... :-))
1st time I got here I wore size 4 - kadang malah 2, still... I always had to buy size L kalo dijakarta, pake dikomentarin pula.. badannya gede ya mbak... iiiih..... apa coba... Apalagi kalo pergi massage... duuuuh... sering banget dapat komentar... simbak badannya gede dan keras kayak laki laki.... eeeeh... coba itu... cape cape bikin badan 'berisi' angkat dumbell , dikomentarin begituan... LOL
OK.. you just had a baby... so don't even think about 'resizing' until you are done having kids.. (kayak ikke nih... anak 3 umur 45 baru mikirin gimana caranya biar kurusan.. hahaha... it's a little bit too late... - so what.. - yang penting abang senang...- cheers ... :-))
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 | “Most Asian women wants to have those rack of yours!”
hihihi ...... BTW, gue pake XL kalo beli baju di Indonesia :) Padahal di sini XS juga masih muat. Gue bilang ke Mark "the first thing that shrink when I lose weight are my boobs. How annoying is that ? Can't I just have my boobs when I was heavy, but smaller body size ?" ...I wish .... |
| qta kayana di Indonesia itu "dipaksa", "diharuskan" untuk jadi petite, kulit putih, rambut panjang. klo di luar dari kategori itu, kayana ga cantik. padahal being cantik kan banyak kategori yg lainnya, bukan?
to me, I don't have problems with cloth size tapi klo shoes size, baru dweh masalah. secara gw kecil tapi kakinya gajah punya. makanya waktu tinggal di Jerman seneng bangets, krn bisa dapet pumps atau spatu² lutu dengan ukuran besar. untungnya di sini juga bisa dapet spatu lutu dengan size besar.
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 | same problem here Yen, badan gw juga susah beli baju di Jkt, makanya gw demen pake yg loose gitu, ngga berani deh yg nempel dibadan, tetalan dimana2 (bukan baby fat ), kalo disini juga susah cari baju ukuranku kalo lagi sale, mungkin krn itu yg paling laku ya.. hehe menghibur diri... waktu gw dateng ukuran bajuku 10 to 12, sekarang 14 to 16, alamak... |
 |  qta kayana di Indonesia itu "dipaksa", "diharuskan" untuk jadi petite, kulit putih, rambut panjang. klo di luar dari kategori itu, kayana ga cantik. padahal being cantik kan banyak kategori yg lainnya, bukan?
to me, I don't have problems with cloth size tapi klo shoes size, baru dweh masalah. secara gw kecil tapi kakinya gajah punya. makanya waktu tinggal di Jerman seneng bangets, krn bisa dapet pumps atau spatu² lutu dengan ukuran besar. untungnya di sini juga bisa dapet spatu lutu dengan size besar.
 Exactly Mindy! Gw waktu pulang ke Indo kmaren selain di komentarin soal berat badan nggak ketinggalan "Lu, item banget sih?!". Ugh! Gw dari dulu nggak pernah tuh yg namanya terpesona segala model whitening lotion lah, ini itu lah, lulur juga luluran kuning aja nggak yg pake pemutih hehehehe.
Shoes size juga di Indo emang nggak sopan, gw aja yg cuman size 40-41 kadang suka gemes hehehehe. |
| same problem here Yen, badan gw juga susah beli baju di Jkt, makanya gw demen pake yg loose gitu, ngga berani deh yg nempel dibadan, tetalan dimana2 (bukan baby fat ), kalo disini juga susah cari baju ukuranku kalo lagi sale, mungkin krn itu yg paling laku ya.. hehe menghibur diri... waktu gw dateng ukuran bajuku 10 to 12, sekarang 14 to 16, alamak... Tapi paling nggak di sini masih banyak pilihan kan Mpok Mei, nggak kayak di Indo yg size gede rata2 modelnya ampun deh, so old looking (to my taste). Ukuran 14-16 mah nggak gede2 banget lah Mpok, di sini banyak yg super jumbo hehehehehe |
| "Lu, item banget sih?!" gw sut kebal ama this kind of statement. palagi my skin was white some years back. tapi semenjak tinggal di luar nagari, jadi tergila² sama matahari n I feel so comfy with my tanned skin. secara orang suka juga ama warna kulit gw eeeh di Indonesia dapet komentar kaya gitu molo. but like I said before, udah kebal gw. sabodo teuing. pernah gw bahas di blog juga soal warna kulit. |
 | anakanak wrote on Jan 22, edited on Jan 22 Yen, yang penting sehat. Itu yang utama. Gue bisa ngomong gini karenaa.. gue sih gak ada masalah sama ukuran dan bentuk bodi (eh bentuk bodi ada deh.. komplen dikit hehehe..) cuman belakangan ini gue kok suka merasa sakit kepala lah nggak ilang2, sakit pinggang belakanglah, sakit ini sakit itu.. weleh.. pokoknya kesehatan nomor satu deh Yen.. palagi udah punya buntut gini.. kalo kita sakit, yang ngurus anak (dan suami) sapee..? :) Soal komentar yang gak enakin, cuekin aje, udah gak ngepek. |
| Kalo gw kayaknya bentar lagi upgrade nih, bukan cuman not so asian nor american... tapi Giant |
 | hahaha ikutan ktawa :)), Gue punya pengalaman yang sama ama ukuran yen cuman bedanya dulu waktu gue blum punya erin. My pants size was 0, yes zero . Karena kebanyakan maennya ama ipar and tetangga yang notabene american...jadi gue tergolong petite lah yah. Bgitu gue mudik ama John kita sempat mampir ke singapore..yaolo bgitu di singapore gue dah kek giant aje habis badan mereka tipis tipis semua...kan malu ati hahahaha:)). |
 | Seru banget nih topik Yen...
Soal kulit...walah gue dibilang kok dulu waktu tinggal di Taipei putihan sekarang di amrik jadi malah iteman... EGP alias sabodo teuing deh... tuh orang2 nga tau aja kalo disini yang item malah yang wokeh... hihihi... sampe ada yang nanya gue tanning di salon mana...hahaha...
Kalo soal size atasan gue lebih gedean dikit sekarang tapi kalo celana atau rok masih lumayan sekarang udah kecil, celana size 0 gue yang sebelum hamil sekarang udah bisa dipake lagi... kayaknya berat badan gue udah back to normal 112 lbs... |
 | People may said whatever they think about our body or our dark skin. As long as we are happy and feel comfortable with ourself,thats all the matter.Hehehe iya ngak? beberapa bulan lagi gue dan mimi mo pulkam,kudu siap2 juga dengerin dibilang gendut.:) |
 | I had the same feeling kalo pas shopping for clothes in Indonesia. My confidence is up when Im in the state because people say I have a small figure. I'm 5.2 and 125 pounds. Setiap kali pulang rasanya kok giant sekali apalagi my sister has a model-like figure. But I just ignore it and if I want to buy stuff I'll buy it even though it is size XL. I have big boobs too so it's hard to find tops. Loosing baby weight is not easy but slowly we're going to get there. I dont mind getting back to 120 or 115. Kapan ya?? Makan terus sih daku. Hi hi hi |
 | ummmmm.............kl kurus malah dibilang "loh koq kurus'sih padahal tinggal di amrik?" he he he..... |
| iya yen....so anggep ajah angin lalu.....ogut yg bb cuman 90 pounds the most (lowest'nya 88 ) bisa2 dibilang penyakitan kek kek kek..... |
 | walaah cuek aja Maureen.. yg penting sehat... emang geregetan... di US gue serasa petite, langsing kurus... ternyataaa... nyampe sini tergolong yg 'gede' juga.... orang2 sini kurusnya minta ampuun... pinggang kok bisa pada segede kelingking gitu yah.. sementara gue daerah pinggang n sekitarnya mlendung.. malu ati sendiri deh.. trus udah gitu kulit pada muluuuuuuuuuusss and putiiiiih.. lah gue dong yg dekil n kumal.. kena matahari yah cuek.. lah mereka pada takut matahari.. pada pake payung... hehehehe |
 | emann wrote on Jan 22, edited on Jan 22 Well Yen, I'd like to announce "ME" as an Asian girl who doesn't like to be skinny. I am 5'5'' and wearing size 0 or 2 now. God only knows how I hate my skinny figure. I was 118 before pregnant and wearing size 4. The first one year in the state I was size 0. I was glad to be in size 4. Then I got pregnant, and everything got big especially my chest (which I loved so much).And after a year being a mother, busy chasing around a 14 month old boy, here I am a skinny biotch again (KUTILANG DARAT kalo kata adek gue..hahahaha) wearing size XS or 0. Damn it!!!!!!
I can not agree more with your friend who said most Asian girls would like to have those rack of yours.....because I am one. If only there is a way to transfer some fat or meat into my body.
But most important Yen; no matter what size you are, as long as your healthy and happy...that what counts. |
 | Gw juga kesal banget waktu balik ke indo taon lalu, orang pada bilangin : loe kok badannya gemuk banget macam emak emak deh ....Ya ampun gila kali ye...emang gw udah emak emak namanya juga udah punya anak sigh...gw ampe ngelus dada aja... |
 | Yen, aku juga sama nih... yah namanya juga udah emak2 punya anak, kalo badan berubah ya normal, but aku sekarang lagi ngurusin badan, soalnya baju2 di jepang sini sama dg baju di indo. Kalo di indo masih bagus ada XXL, nah kalo baju disini kebanyakan cuman ada S ama M, yg L ada tapi dikit. Yg XXL wah boro2 say...gak pernah nemu soalnya cewek jepang disini pd ramping2, gile bener dah. |
 | I'm in the club babe, i have the same problem. lebih ngeselin sih kalo di Indonesia. Here(USA) people dont really care about how we look, mind their own business !!
i can only give you a hug babe.
don't worry about self - image( being thin) , yg penting kita sehat ya
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| wahhh ike bisa ngerti perasaanmu Yen.. lah aku juga sama nih.. badan juga subur punya.. yang penting kesehatan yang utaama... dan biar kata badan gak sekurus model.. bukan berarti kita gak bisa dress nice..
yang penting kita comfortable dengan badan sendiri ... bodoh amat apa kata orang :) ... *hugs* :) |
 | seru deh yen seperti biasa....gw juga sampai disini shock sama masalah baju,abis ukuran xs,s,m suka agak2 sesak ga muat gt..pastilah gw menggemuk(sambil ngebatin) tapi pas gw perhatiin kayanya disini ukuran m mereka sama kaya s diindo makanya gw gak muat(ngelesss) komentar2 gemukkan ya? udah biasa buat kuping gw hehehe...sayangnya jadi susah cari baju diambasador hihihi
next time bawa aja baju dr amrik yen(biar ga stress carinya) bawahnnya 2-3 aja yg penting bawa topsnya yg banyak
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 | weleh kirain cuman daku yang merasa gitu..... taon maren pulang ke indo 2 kali (nengokin nyokap yang dah tua).... sodara2 pada bilang "gila deh Ri, lo gemuk amat sih. Mana item lagi"......OMG, berat badan ku tuh 135 lbs, anak 3 biji, umur hampir 49..... mo digimanain lagi..... sakit hati deh..... I feel bad enough for being fat........ :(:(
daku juga setuju ma Shinta, kok gemuknya gak ke dada ya????? ....
Thanks say for bringing this up.......... serasa punya temen se penderitaan...... |
| Yen, aku juga sama nih... yah namanya juga udah emak2 punya anak, kalo badan berubah ya normal, but aku sekarang lagi ngurusin badan, soalnya baju2 di jepang sini sama dg baju di indo. Kalo di indo masih bagus ada XXL, nah kalo baju disini kebanyakan cuman ada S ama M, yg L ada tapi dikit. Yg XXL wah boro2 say...gak pernah nemu soalnya cewek jepang disini pd ramping2, gile bener dah. Nina, di Indo kmaren juga jarang kok size XXL sampe gw di suruh nyokap nyari baju di "My Size" store di Jkt (which, I never bother to go to). Kebayang yah di Jepang para wanitanya pasti lebih mungil2. Ya udah Nin, ntar kalo balik ke US borong baju yg banyak yah hehehehe. |
| indythur wrote on Jan 23, edited on Jan 23 Oyennnnnnn... gw ketawa geli baca blog loe, krn jadi seperti ketampar diri sendiri. Gw agak2 takut nih kpgn pulang ke Indo krn gw udah bisa denger komentar2 orang2 nanti klo liat gw... koq tambah gemuk??? udah punya momongan belum? udah tua koq msh santai2 aja gak mau cpt punya anak (ini khan bukan keputusan gw, keputusan yg diatas khan)... and blah blah blah...
Yg penting gw hidup sehat bersama suami, dan suami cinta gw apa adanya. Klo dia pernah bilang kpgn gw kurus, bukan krn image tapi pure reason krn kesehatan gw (khan gw punya diabetes type 2).
Gw juga setuju soal make up, gw tampil beda kalo ada acara2 aja spy panglingin orang, dulu setahun pertama suami gw bilang klo gw "high maintenance" krn gak mau pergi keluar kalo belum make up cantik dan rapi... skg sih yg penting gak keliatan kucel aja, a little powder and lipstick. That's it!
Ngapain cantik klo otak blo'on ... iya gak? beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.... muuaaah for you and Alex!!! |
| woahhh Indy... ini blog si Oyen.. salah panggil nama nih hihi... bener yang penting cantik iman dan personality... :) |
 | Sama ternyataaaaaaaa....waktu pulang kemarin ampe cuma beli baju 2 aja, soalnya yg model cantik2 ukuran orang2 yg body nya lancir.
Empetnyaaaaaaaaa...pernah nih Yen..baru juga megang2 baju nya ehh kata si penjual gini " untuk ukuran Mbak nggak ada yg model gitu, "
Kuprettttttttt!!!
Waktu Josh ampe 6 bulan, nih badan masih biasa.
Begitu Josh 8 bulan mulai naik gila gila an, soalnya kalo dach capek banget n pusing pasti yg di cari makanan n coca cola atau ice cream
Tapi untung nya di NZ juga nggak ada orang yg peduli.
Jadi kita tenang aja lah Yen..nti waktunya mau kurus jg kurus sendiri heeeeee heee....daripada mikirin malahan menderita.:) |
 | Oyen... mostly orang asia tuh emang dipaksa untuk jadi kurus, sampe dulu ada temen orang Australia bilang, 'coba liat deh Yola, orang-orang Indonesia kurus-kurus begitu, they don't look healthy to me'. Tapi bener juga loh dia itu menurut gue... Dulu gue malah terobsesi untuk menggemukkan diri, sampe ikut program-program fitness, ke dokter ahli gizi dlsb, naiknya cuman 2 kilo. Tuh kan, gue aja pengen gemuk, lah nggak bisa Yen, sampe sekarang nih. Malah dulu di US malu banget kalo cari baju, mesti masuknya ke section anak-anak, hahaha... |
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| woahhh Indy... ini blog si Oyen.. salah panggil nama nih hihi... bener yang penting cantik iman dan personality... :) whooopsss..... sorry, udah diganti tuh! |
 | hehehe.. sama'an nih Reen, waktu mudik kemaren gue ke FO di Bandung, size gue tiba2 berubah jadi L or XL padahal disini pake size S. Gue cuekkin aja abis yg penting kan comfortable, size is just a number (or letter).. :D |
 | Gw dulu gitu juga say, sebelum ada anak..size extra small, dah ada Kiana sekarang kalau engga size S atau M deh. Oh well..that's life say, yang penting kita hidup bahagia dan sehat selalu. Aduhh apa sih kok malah kotbah gw..hehe. Punten ah. |
| mjrohn wrote on Jan 23, edited on Jan 23 Gw agak2 takut nih kpgn pulang ke Indo krn gw udah bisa denger komentar2 orang2 nanti klo liat gw... koq tambah gemuk??? udah punya momongan belum? udah tua koq msh santai2 aja gak mau cpt punya anak (ini khan bukan keputusan gw, keputusan yg diatas khan)... and blah blah blah... Indy, paling nggak udah ada bayangan kan kalo pulang ke Indo bakalan kena komen kayak gimana? Hehehehe bring your own ear plugs I should say.
Soal diabetes, sekedar input dari gw yah Ndy, I'm no expert in any means but you really have to take care of yourself once you got diabetic soalnya keluarga gw tuh udah turun temurun kena diabetes & efeknya in a long run very bad jadi kalo bisa di maintain Ndy, keep your glucose level within the normal limit. Good luck girl! |
 | Oyen gak gemuk ah (menurut pandangan gw lho:)). Emang kalo balik ke indo bikin self conscious gitu deh soalnya mereka banyak yang kurus2, blom lagi size baju yang beda sama di sini. Dulu kalau di Indo ukuran celana gw pasti selalu L dan nyarinya yg sreg di hati dan badan udh ribet. Di US justru lebih gampang...asal size S or size 3 dah pasti masuk.
Jangan stress2 yah, yen....bener kata yg lain...yg penting badan sehat dan hati bahagia:) |
 | Hahahaha!!! ktawa besar kita baca ngana pe posting, Yen... terutama karena beda cara pandang terhadap yang namanya "ukuran baju" dan badan ini. Waktu saya hamil, Ibu saya yang paling happy... well, disamping karena bakal punya cucu lagi, juga karena lihat badan saya yang berisi a.k.a battala' a.k.a godé'. Maklum, selama gadis dan setelah menikah dan kemudian tinggal di sini, badan saya tidak ada perkembangan alias agak-agak tipis -- sampe' ada sahabatku yang bilang, saya tidak perlu lewat pintu pagar karena lewat antar jerujinya juga muat! Ededeh... bisanya itu! Sempat pake' ukuran celana 4 disini (setelah terbiasa dengan "American portion" kalo makan di luar... ha! bisa untuk makan satu keluarga di Indonesia dan kalo disini sekali makan... bagemana tidak battala'???), tapi baru saja Zaza 4 bulan badan langsung melorot ke posisi semula sampe' sekarang. Kemarin bikin malu (tojengka' ini bukan mo pamer badan... tapi btul bikin sa senyum kecut)... sa blanja online untuk saya dan Iman. Buntutnya, celana women ukuran 4 yang sedianya untuk saya (yang ternyata melorot waktu saya coba), di badan Iman ngepas se pas-pasnya. Sedangkan celana girl 16 di badan saya malah longgar! *sigh*. Iman dan David sampe terkekeh-kekeh waktu saya tukaran dengan dia (habis itu, sa kandatto' kepalanya! hahahaha). Dan jangan ditanya komentar Ibu saya liat badan saya yang kembali tipis: "makan ko banyak-banyak, Nak!" hahahaha!!!! mungkin beliau pikir, di Amerika mako itu eh Yaty... masa' masih saja kurang gizi???? hahahahaha. Hayo... sa sudah ndak bisa brenti ketawa mi ini... Jammako khawatir De'... masa bodoh dengan ukuran baju dan badan. Yang penting hati senang, jiwa merdeka, bahagia lahir batin... dan sepanjang suami tidak komplen, sapa tong peduli??? Kalo doi komplen, kandatto' saja kepalanya! hahahahaha Hugs from me and Zaza for you and Kakak Alex! Yaty Catatan Harian IbundaMy Simple Life |
 | sama Yen, celana jean gue yg bawaan dr Indo udah enga bisa di seleting hiks..hiks..., apalagi sekarang dingin bawaan mau ngunyah terus nih mulut ^__^
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 | Oyen,
orang Ambon bilang "jang pastiu deng dorang"...
yang penting sehat & senang toh???
beta kemaren di Ambon, sampe capek diketawain kakak adek karena selalu ber-short pants biarpun ini paha dan perut kemana2 dan kulit item legam :)
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 | Yennn samaan :) sehabis melahirkan pakenya XL sekarang udah kurangan dikiiiit hehehe jadi turun ke L :) |
 | Seru topiknya ...disini juga ngalamin...Hiii dari Arizona.. |
 | With my pear shaped body, it was almost impossible to find perfectly fit jeans or pants back home because as we know most Indonesian have stick figure. What a relief it was when I moved to the US and not having problems finding jeans. We should call this country the Land of the Curves :o)) |
 | Wuahhaaaaahhaa,,, si Mark nguakak bis baca blog loe yg ini,,,, |
 | I have problems buying clothes here in Tunisia too! The average Tunisian women is between 5'2 - 5'5 and weighs only 50-55kg. Because of this, the stores only carry the sizes that the majority wears. I understand their point of view - why carry larger sizes when no one will buy it? But this is bad for me. I am 5'11 and weigh 70kg. The pants here (when I can find one in my waist size) are so short on me that I look like I'm waiting for a huge flood! (they come halfway up my calves). Shirts are hard to find because I am also well endowed in the chest. Even their XL squish me! Not to mention that the sleeves do not come all the way down to my wrists. And don't even get me started on the shoes! LOL
I buy all my shoes and most of my clothes from either the US or somewhere in Europe. If I didn't, I'd look like I was trying to fit into a 12 years old clothes! LOL |
 | Maureen... I can relate to your story... :)... I was so happy when I came back to New Orleans from Indonesia... looking at my husband and myself in the mirror.... and told him: Thank you Babe... with you on my side, I look smaller... heheheh. |
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